Wealth is relative: You can earn N10,000,000 a year, but if you fritter 
away everything, you have a lower net worth than someone making N1000,000 a year and spending N800,000 in a year and directing the remaining N200,000 towards savings/investment.
When you are financially comfortable enough to meet your personal goals, have a plan in place to not outlive your money, and feel freedom when it comes to money, that’s a rich life to live.
Trying to attain someone else’s version of rich usually only makes for an unhappy person with a nice bank account.